Lesson 5: Family Members and Relationships

Vocabulary: Family Members

ChinesePinyinEnglish
jiāfamily, home
爸爸bàbadad, father
妈妈māmamom, mother
哥哥gēgeolder brother
弟弟dìdìyounger brother
姐姐jiĕjieolder sister
妹妹mèimeiyounger sister
儿子érzison
女儿nǚ’érdaughter
父母fùmǔparents
夫妇fūfùhusband and wife
丈夫zhàngfuhusband
妻子qīziwife

Sentence Patterns

Introducing your family

To introduce your family members, use the structure:

这是 + person. → “This is [person].”

Examples:

这是我爸爸。 (Zhè shì wǒ bàba.)
This is my dad.

她是我妈妈。 (Tā shì wǒ māma.)
She is my mom.

Note: “是” (shì) means “to be,” and “这” (zhè) means “this.”

Talking about family size

To talk about how many people are in your family, use:

我家有 + number + 口人。 (Wǒ jiā yǒu [number] kǒu rén.) → “My family has [number] people.”

Example:

我家有四口人。 (Wǒ jiā yǒu sì kǒu rén.)
There are four people in my family.

  • 家 (jiā) means “family” or “home.”
  • 有 (yǒu) means “to have.”
  • 口 (kǒu) is the specific measure word used for family members when counting them.

Grammar Point: Using “的” to Show Possession

In Chinese, we use 的 (de) to indicate possession or belonging. It’s similar to using “‘s” or “of” in English.

Structure:

[Possessor] + 的 + [thing possessed]

Examples:

  • 我的家 (wǒ de jiā) = my family
  • 我的爸爸 (wǒ de bàba) = my dad

However, in spoken Chinese, when referring to very close relationships (like immediate family), native speakers often omit 的:

  • 我爸爸 (wǒ bàba) (instead of 我的爸爸) = my dad
  • 我妈妈 (wǒ māma) (instead of 我的妈妈) = my mom

Both forms are correct, but omitting is more natural and common in everyday speech.

This grammar point will be explained more extensively in the next lesson.


Notes

  • 有 (yǒu) is used to say you “have” something, or to indicate existence (“there is/are”).
  • 的 (de) is a possessive particle. It’s commonly used to say “my,” “his,” “her,” etc. But it can be omitted in close family relationships.
  • 口 (kǒu) is the measure word used for counting people in a family. However, using 个 (gè) here is not wrong.

Example:

  • 我家有三口人。 (Wǒ jiā yǒu sān kǒu rén.) = There are three people in my family.
  • Using 个 is also possible: 我家有三个人。(Wǒ jiā yǒu sān rén.)

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